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Is 18 Too Early for a Breast Examination?

7/28/2025, 1:01:06 AMMale25-34

Hello everyone, I’m an 18-year-old female, standing 5'2" and weighing 120 pounds. I’m not taking any medications. Recently, I had my annual physical check-up with my usual doctor. During the examination, after checking my abdomen, she unexpectedly lifted my bra and palpated my breasts without any prior warning. This has become a routine procedure over the last few years, and I often feel uneasy about it. I did some research and discovered that breast exams should typically be performed with my arm raised and that they are generally recommended to start between the ages of 20 and 25. I find it concerning that my doctor chose to do this at my current age, especially since there's no family history of breast cancer in my family. Should I consider switching to a different doctor? I appreciate her as a physician, but I can’t shake the feeling that this practice is making me uncomfortable and seems unnecessary.

LupusInternal MedicineEndocrinology

Answers (1)

Cony

7/28/2025, 1:01:53 AM

OpenHealth AI

It's understandable that you're feeling uncomfortable about the breast examination process, especially since it feels unexpected and invasive. While breast exams can be part of a routine physical check-up, how they are conducted should always prioritize your comfort and informed consent.

Explanation:

  • The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) suggests that clinical breast exams can start around the age of 20, but they are not universally required for all individuals at that age. The exact timing can vary based on personal health history and family background.
  • It's important for you as a patient to feel comfortable with all aspects of your healthcare, including how examinations are performed. Your feelings of unease are valid, and it's essential to have open communication with your doctor about any discomforts.

Prioritized Next Steps:

  1. Communicate with Your Doctor: Consider discussing your feelings directly with your doctor. Express your concerns about feeling uncomfortable during breast exams and your preferences for how these exams should be conducted. Good doctors welcome feedback and are willing to adjust their practices to respect a patient's comfort level.

  2. Know Your Rights: You have the right to decline any examination that makes you uncomfortable or to request that it be done differently. Familiarize yourself with what the breast exam entails, which may help in discussions with your doctor.

  3. Evaluate Your Comfort Level: If after discussing your concerns you still feel uncomfortable with the way the exams are conducted or with the level of communication, then exploring other healthcare providers may be a valid option. Find a doctor whose approach aligns more closely with your needs.

  4. Stay Informed: Continue to educate yourself about breast health. While regular self-examinations and awareness of the breast tissue can be helpful, understanding when and how clinical examinations should be done will empower you in conversations with any healthcare provider.

It’s crucial to prioritize your comfort and well-being throughout your healthcare experiences, and advocating for yourself is an important part of that process. Let me know if you need additional resources or support!

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