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Could a Happy Ending Massage Cause Prostatitis?

7/15/2025, 11:10:20 PMMale25-34

A 32-year-old male reports experiencing recurrent urination and a burning sensation following a massage session that included a happy ending. He clarifies that there was no other form of sexual interaction. After visiting urgent care, medical professionals suggested the possibility of a prostate infection. He wonders whether the source of the infection could be the massage itself or possibly the lubricant used during the session. Additionally, he concerns whether his heightened anxiety is exacerbating his symptoms. Seeking advice and clarity on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

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Cony

7/15/2025, 11:10:39 PM

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It's understandable to be concerned about your symptoms, especially after a recent experience that has left you feeling uneasy. Persistent urinary issues and burning sensations can definitely be distressing, and it's good that you've sought medical advice.

Main Points:

  1. Prostatitis can indeed be caused by various factors, including infections.
  2. The massage itself is typically not a direct cause of prostatitis.
  3. Your anxiety might be contributing to your symptoms.

Explanation:

Prostatitis is an inflammation of the prostate gland and can be caused by bacterial infections or other factors. Recurrent urination and burning sensations are common symptoms but can also be linked to conditions like urinary tract infections (UTIs), bladder irritation, or, in some cases, anxiety and stress.

Regarding your concern about the massage, while it is unlikely that the massage itself is what caused prostatitis, certain lubricants or hygiene practices used during such massages could potentially lead to irritation or infections. If any substances used caused irritation or had allergens, they might play a role in your symptoms.

Your anxiety may also be intensifying how you perceive physical sensations, making any discomfort feel sharper or more worrying.

Next Steps:

  1. Monitor Symptoms: Keep track of your symptoms, noting when they occur and their severity. This can help you identify any patterns or triggers.
  2. Hydration: Ensure you stay well-hydrated. Drinking plenty of water can help flush out your urinary system and alleviate burning sensations.
  3. Avoid Irritants: Stay away from potential irritants such as harsh soaps, scented products, or any other substances that might aggravate your urinary tract.
  4. Manage Anxiety: Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or gentle exercise, which may help reduce anxiety and the intensity of your symptoms.
  5. Consider Hygiene: If you've been using any new products or lubricants, consider whether they may be a cause of irritation and try to identify any that could be causing discomfort.
  6. Review with Professionals: If symptoms persist, consider following up with a healthcare professional to explore further testing or treatments.

It's understandable that you might feel anxious about these changes, but monitoring your symptoms and managing your anxiety can be very beneficial. Take care, and if you have further questions or need clarification, feel free to ask.

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