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Seeking Guidance for Overwhelming Anxiety

2/16/2026, 9:30:15 PMMale25-34

I’m a 22-year-old man in desperate need of advice regarding a recent troubling experience. Previously, I managed to cope with silent panic attacks quite well; however, about three days back, while watching a YouTube video that critiqued some dogmatic ideas, I was suddenly hit by a severe panic attack. I still can't pinpoint the trigger for it. Since that incident, I’ve been trapped in a relentless cycle of anxious thoughts. It feels as if the world around me isn’t real, which has created an urgent desire to scream and cry. Even as I write this, I find myself struggling to breathe, and my arms have begun to tremble and lose feeling. Although I rationally know I should be okay, fear still grips me. To provide some context, I had been a daily cannabis user, although I doubt it’s the root cause of my current distress. In an attempt to mitigate my symptoms, I have decided to stop using it, including cutting out nicotine. I believe that before seeking mental health support, I should first undergo a physical health check-up; however, without health insurance and being currently unemployed, I find myself in a difficult situation. Fortunately, I am living with my parents, which allows me to manage day-to-day needs, but I am eager to overcome these feelings so I can return to work and support those around me. What steps would you recommend for someone in my position?

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Cony

2/16/2026, 9:30:35 PM

OpenHealth AI

Experiencing overwhelming anxiety, especially following a sudden panic attack, can be incredibly distressing. It's commendable that you're seeking to manage your symptoms and looking for ways to improve your situation. Here are some important points to consider, along with actionable steps to help you on your path to feeling better.

Main Points:

  1. Understand Your Symptoms: The feelings of unreality, trembling, and difficulty breathing can be common in anxiety and panic attacks. These sensations, while frightening, are typically not harmful.
  2. Prioritize Self-Care Techniques: Focus on immediate strategies to calm your mind and body.
  3. Seek Support: Given your circumstances, support from friends, family, or mental health resources can be valuable.

Explanation:

Anxiety can sometimes result from a combination of factors, including previous experiences, substance use, and stress. Since you've identified your cannabis and nicotine use as areas you've changed recently, it's important to recognize that withdrawal or changes in routine can exacerbate anxiety temporarily. The good news is, with the right strategies, it's possible to regain your sense of control and improve your emotional state.

Actionable Steps:

  1. Breathing Exercises: Start by practicing deep breathing to help control your physical symptoms. Try inhaling for a count of 4, holding for 4, and exhaling for 6. Repeat this several times—aim for 5-10 minutes each time you feel overwhelmed. This can help reduce panic and anxiety in the moment.

  2. Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: When feelings of unreality arise, try to ground yourself by focusing on your surroundings. Name five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you hear, two things you smell, and one thing you can taste. This can help reorient you to the present.

  3. Establish a Routine: Create a daily schedule that includes regular meals, sleep, and physical activity. Structure can help manage anxiety symptoms by providing predictability to your day.

  4. Limit Stimulants: Continue avoiding substances like caffeine, cannabis, and nicotine, as they can heighten anxiety and trigger panic attacks.

  5. Connect with Support Systems: Open up to your family about what you’re experiencing. They can provide emotional support and understanding during this time. If there are local mental health resources or hotlines you can access, consider reaching out to them for additional guidance, even if it's pro bono.

  6. Educate Yourself: Learning about anxiety and panic attacks can help demystify your experience. Books or trusted websites on anxiety management can be beneficial resources.

  7. Document Your Experiences: Keeping a journal might help you identify triggers and patterns in your anxiety, allowing for a deeper understanding and better management of your symptoms over time.

If symptoms persist or worsen, it’s crucial to seek professional help as soon as you can. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are people and resources available to support you. Prioritize your wellbeing and take small, manageable steps. If you need more specific resources or have further questions, feel free to ask.

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