Urethral Injury: Seeking Advice
Here's the situation: Yesterday, I decided to experiment with sounding for the first time, using a candy cane (yes, I realize how strange that sounds). I've done some reading on the topic, and thought it might be fun to give it a try, despite my poor choice of object (definitely not advisable for a first attempt). I gently inserted it after waiting for some pre-cum to serve as lubrication. Initially, there was no issue; it actually felt enjoyable, despite some discomfort, which I couldn't tell if it was due to the peppermint flavoring or just the novelty of the experience. As I gradually became more at ease, I began to move it around. But when I reached climax, I noticed a small amount of blood, which understandably freaked me out. Fast forward to today, I woke up feeling the urge to urinate, and when I did, it stung intensely, almost like I was passing a kidney stone. Now, I'm in a bit of a bind and could really use some guidance because I urgently need to relieve myself. I'd rather avoid a doctor's visit if possible and would prefer to handle it at home, preferably letting it heal naturally. If there are any over-the-counter remedies you could recommend, I'd appreciate suggestions for anything that costs under $15. As for a bit of background: I’m a male (not quite of age yet), with a length of 5.5 inches, and from Southeast Asia. I suspect the bleeding is coming from near the tip of my urethra, as that area is quite painful, though there might be some discomfort further down as well. (P.S. I recognize that this was not the best idea, but please don’t be too harsh.)
Answers (1)
12/14/2025, 7:01:03 AM
OpenHealth AI
It’s important to address your situation carefully and supportively. The symptoms you're experiencing—pain, blood during urination, and a stinging sensation—indicate that you might have caused some irritation or injury to your urethra. Here’s a breakdown of your situation and some clear steps you can take to help yourself.
Key Points:
- Signs of Injury: Blood in your urine and pain can signal an injury to your urethra.
- Self-Care Measures: There are practical steps you can take to promote healing and alleviate discomfort.
- When to Seek Help: You should monitor your symptoms closely and know when to seek professional help if conditions worsen.
Explanation:
Inserting foreign objects, especially ones that aren't designed for this purpose (like a candy cane), can lead to trauma or irritation of the urethra. The presence of blood and pain suggests that the tissue may be inflamed or injured, and the stinging sensation could be due to irritation as you urinate.
Next Steps:
- Hydrate: Drink plenty of water. Staying well-hydrated can help flush out your urinary tract and dilute any irritants.
- Avoid Irritants: Steer clear of any further insertion of objects, sexual activity, caffeine, alcohol, and spicy foods, as these can further irritate your urethra.
- Warm Baths: Taking a warm sitz bath can provide soothing relief for your pelvic area. Sit in warm water for about 15-20 minutes as needed.
- Over-the-Counter Pain Relief: You can consider using an oral pain reliever like ibuprofen or acetaminophen, which is typically available under $15, to manage any pain or discomfort you're feeling.
- Monitor Your Symptoms: Keep track of any changes. If you notice increasing bleeding, worsening pain, fever, or difficulty urinating, it would be important to seek medical attention promptly.
- Use a Gentle Urinary Product (if available): Look for products specifically made for urinary discomfort, such as a urinary pain relief medication (often containing phenazopyridine), though availability can vary based on location.
As a final note, while you might prefer to manage this at home, please recognize the importance of professional medical guidance if symptoms do not improve in the next few days or if severe symptoms appear. Your health and well-being are the priority. Feel free to ask if you need further clarification or support.
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