OpenHealth Q&A

Get answered by medical professionals

Chronic Menstrual Discomfort

12/13/2025, 10:00:51 AMMale25-34

Greetings, I'm reaching out for expertise and guidance concerning my girlfriend's health issues. For the last two weeks, she's been experiencing on-and-off abdominal discomfort, which started in her right lower quadrant (RLQ) and has now also affected the left lower quadrant (LLQ). Here are some details: she is 25 years old, 5 feet 3 inches tall, and weighs 210 pounds. Her medical background includes polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), as well as a recent IUD removal due to displacement, a previous spontaneous IUD expulsion, heavy menstrual bleeding, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and anxiety. Her family medical history lists PCOS and endometriosis. She's taking Drospirenone 4mg, which began on March 7, along with Vyvanse 10mg, Iron, B12, a multivitamin, and Vitamin C. Socially, she consumes alcohol a handful of times annually and uses marijuana occasionally (including both smoking and edibles) but stopped recently on January 12. After being diagnosed with PCOS in 2022, my girlfriend has faced two instances of IUD expulsion, and traditional oral contraceptives have been ineffective in controlling her heavy menstrual bleeding. At present, her daytime bleeding is somewhat under control but tends to flare up during the night. It's so severe that she can bleed through a "super jumbo" tampon and period underwear within 60 minutes. For further context, during the previous expulsion in January 2025, she bled through both a "super jumbo" tampon and Depend briefs during the night. Other indicators of her significant bleeding issues involve spending hours on the toilet as she experiences continuous blood flow and passing clots approximately the size of 6 cm. Thus far, she consulted her general practitioner who expressed concerns that her issues might stem from her PCOS, given the presence of numerous follicles in her right ovary. Blood tests, a urine sample, and an ultrasound appointment have been scheduled for mid-January. Her blood work returned normal, confirming she is not pregnant, nor did they find indications of a urinary tract infection (UTI). The doctor who performed the IUD insertion in February 2025 has also been consulted; the device was removed on March 7 as it was, in the doctor's words, "on its way out." As a follow-up, she was prescribed Drospirenone to help with menstruation and discussed a potential prescription for tranexamic acid (TXA). She has a follow-up appointment to explore the option of a birth control implant at the end of December. Since the removal of her IUD, she continues to encounter intermittent severe menstrual bleeding, nausea that comes and goes, as well as constant discomfort in her lower back and abdominal regions. We plan to return to her GP on Monday when the clinic reopens. I am seeking insights and advice regarding what could be causing these symptoms. Is this solely linked to her PCOS? I'm also interested in ways to support her effectively and advocate for her health if necessary. Our current objectives include discussing a referral to an OBGYN and the follow-up for the birth control implant, as it seems IUDs aren't providing relief. Should we consider consulting an endocrinologist? Both of us have reservations about TXA due to potential clotting risks, particularly as my mother experienced a pulmonary embolic shower and spent time in the ICU this past summer, with her situation believed to be linked to hormone replacement therapy (HRT) related to menopause. As both my girlfriend and I work in healthcare, we are finding it challenging to navigate this situation. Any advice you could share would be greatly appreciated.

ADHDAnxietyDepression

Answers (1)

Cony

12/13/2025, 10:01:17 AM

OpenHealth AI

Main Points: Your girlfriend is experiencing severe menstrual discomfort and heavy bleeding, likely compounded by her PCOS and recent IUD issues. It's commendable that you're seeking support for her. Here are tailored insights and actionable next steps.

Explanation: The symptoms described, including severe abdominal discomfort, heavy menstrual bleeding, and back pain, can be related to her polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), as well as potential influences from the removal of her IUD. PCOS can lead to hormonal imbalances, which might cause irregular menstruation and heavy bleeding. Additionally, the removal of the IUD can also disrupt the menstrual cycle initially, resulting in increased symptoms, especially as she had complications with previous IUDs.

With her family history of endometriosis and ongoing severe menstrual symptoms, it’s prudent to consider that endometriosis could also be a factor. The blood tests being conducted are essential in ruling out other conditions and helping understand her hormonal levels.

Next Steps:

  1. Advocate for a Comprehensive Evaluation:

    • During the upcoming GP appointment, discuss the possibility of a referral to an OBGYN. This specialist can offer more targeted treatments for her menstrual issues and a thorough evaluation that may include endometriosis screening.
    • Express your concerns about her heavy bleeding and the associated symptoms in detail. Sharing specific incidents (like bleeding through a super jumbo tampon within 60 minutes) can illustrate the severity clearly.
  2. Discuss Treatment Options:

    • Bring up the effectiveness and potential side effects of Drospirenone and the concerns surrounding tranexamic acid (TXA). Address your feelings regarding clotting risks, emphasizing a preference for therapies with lower risks.
    • Inquire about alternative birth control methods beyond IUDs, such as hormonal implants or different oral contraceptives that may better suit her condition.
  3. Manage Discomfort and Symptoms at Home:

    • Encourage her to maintain a symptom diary until her appointment, noting the intensity of her bleeding, episodes of nausea, and any other relevant symptoms. This can facilitate a more informed discussion with her healthcare provider.
    • Suggest she stay hydrated and consider gentle heat (like a heating pad) to alleviate abdominal and back pain if it's safe and comfortable for her.
  4. Mental Health Support:

    • Given the stress of her ongoing health issues, ensure that both of you are taking care of your mental health. You might consider integrating stress-reduction techniques, such as mindfulness or relaxation exercises, especially since both of you are in healthcare and may be facing compounded stress.
  5. Keep Communication Open:

    • Continue discussing her feelings and experiences with her, providing reassurance that exploring all treatment options is essential. Feeling supported during this time can make a difference in how she manages her condition.

Your proactive approach in advocating for her health is valuable, and you're right to explore all avenues that may help alleviate her symptoms. Best wishes to both of you in the upcoming discussions with her GP.

Related Questions

Navigating Health Anxiety: Should I Seek Further Testing?

This explanation might be a bit lengthy, but I appreciate your consideration. I’m a 32-year-old individual with no major health issues in my history, however, my family has a medical background. My mother is a type 2 diabetic, and my father faced hypertension and underwent angioplasty approximately two decades ago. Recently, for the last three to four months, I've been experiencing episodes where I wake up suddenly at night with my heart pounding. The first few instances were quite alarming, as they were unfamiliar to me; there was even an occurrence during the daytime. These experiences have made me excessively attentive to any fluctuations in my heart rate. I began to habitually monitor my pulse, constantly trying to determine if my heart was beating too quickly or if everything was stable. Even the slightest twinge in my chest would provoke anxiety about my heart's well-being, resulting in heightened sensitivity towards any heart-related sensations. As time has passed, I’ve started to cope more effectively during these episodes. I remind myself that this feeling will eventually subside, take a few deep breaths while lying down, and gradually my heart rate stabilizes. To date, I haven’t experienced any additional symptoms during these episodes, such as breathlessness or dizziness. However, I have occasionally felt some discomfort in the area between my stomach and diaphragm, which leads me to ponder whether my symptoms might stem from some unhealthy lifestyle choices, particularly concerning my sleep routine and meal timing, potentially disrupting my circadian rhythm. Here’s my reasoning: I’ve been averaging around six hours of sleep each night for the past three years. I often find myself ruminating over various aspects of my life, contributing to mild anxiety (though it hasn't become severe). I usually eat dinner around 10 PM, head to bed by 1:30 or 2 AM, and tend to browse social media before I fall asleep. Sometimes I notice that I snore, which raises concerns that I could have some kind of breathing obstruction leading to my nocturnal episodes of waking up with an accelerated heart rate. However, I can’t definitively say whether I’ve always snored or if I’ve had similar experiences of waking up without being particularly aware of them. Additionally, I’ve noted that four out of ten times, I awaken with a racing heart while having some sort of dream, although I can’t classify them as nightmares. Earlier this year, I underwent blood tests three times, and the most recent results showed normal levels for hemoglobin, cholesterol, triglycerides, and other relevant markers. The sole area of concern was my high-sensitivity C-reactive protein level, which registered at 4.56, indicating an elevated state since anything over 3 is marked as high. I consulted with a cardiologist regarding my findings, yet I felt that my specific situation wasn’t fully appreciated. He prescribed beta blockers for anxiety and hypertension, but I suspect this recommendation stemmed more from my office blood pressure reading of 149/88 and a heart rate of 117. I believe these measurements were possibly skewed by my anxiety during the consultation, and don’t truly reflect my regular status. Additionally, the nurse who recorded my blood pressure didn’t seem to account for my posture, and she took the reading three distinct times. The cardiologist did comment that my circadian rhythm might be disrupted due to my irregular sleep and dinner patterns. I opted not to pursue the prescribed medication and instead reached out for a second viewpoint from a knowledgeable family member who specializes in pathology. He advised against starting blood pressure medication considering my blood pressure isn’t elevated. He suggested a very mild dose of amitriptyline if absolutely necessary, but strictly as a last resort. This entire ordeal has intensified my health anxiety, leading to a fear of being alone in public. Whenever I notice a twitch or an unexplained ache in my chest, my mind immediately jumps to worst-case scenarios related to my heart. I frequently hesitate to engage in brisk walks or home weight lifting, concerned that it might trigger a heart attack. Any insights or advice from those who have faced similar challenges would be greatly appreciated. Thank you to everyone who read this lengthy account and is willing to offer their support and recommendations.

PTSDAnxietyDepression
Male25-34
14 minutes ago

Struggles with a Prolapsed Disc and Numbness

At 20 years old, I've found myself facing a significant health challenge with a prolapsed disc in my lower back (specifically, L5 S1). This issue arose back in January, but it took an agonizing six months before a doctor authorized a CT scan and MRI, which were finally conducted in July. Since that point, my life has undergone a dramatic shift. I'm experiencing a gradual loss of sensation, accompanied by a tingling and numbness in my ring and pinky fingers. Additionally, I often feel a prickly or pins-and-needles sensation in my legs and feet, and persistent muscle spasms have become commonplace. I truly feel at a loss. Despite consulting multiple doctors who all claim everything is fine, I personally feel anything but okay. It’s as if my condition is deteriorating steadily, yet medical professionals are reluctant to provide me with any pain relief or treatment options beyond physiotherapy. Struggling with pre-existing mental health issues, the ongoing physical discomfort is exacerbating my situation. I find myself searching for guidance and support because I’m at a point where I feel powerless to improve my own circumstances. Any advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated, as I am desperate for some direction on how to navigate this difficult time.

InsomniaAnxietyDepression
Male25-34
14 minutes ago

Elevated Heart Rate During Cardio Efforts

I'm becoming quite anxious about my current situation. I find myself on a journey towards better health and fitness, having been diligent about hitting the gym for nearly a month now. During my most recent cardio session on the elliptical, I felt an uplift in my motivation and decided to really challenge myself. My goal was to complete a mile in under twelve minutes, and I successfully achieved that! However, I noticed my heart rate remained consistently between 195 to 200 beats per minute, ultimately peaking at 207 during my maximum exertion in the final minute. For further context, I am a 21-year-old woman, weighing 240 pounds and standing at 5 feet tall. I’m taking 30 mg of phentermine to manage my appetite due to my struggle with binge eating disorder, alongside a 40 mg dose of fluoxetine for anxiety management. After I completed the mile, I took a moment to pause on the elliptical to catch my breath. Surprisingly, within roughly two minutes, my heart rate dropped to 137. Is everything alright? I often grapple with health-related anxiety, and all I aim for is to improve my wellbeing.

AddictionAnxietyDepression
Male25-34
3 hours ago

Experiencing Chest Discomfort and Anxiety Attacks

Greetings, I’m a 16-year-old male, and just two days prior, I encountered my very first anxiety attack while riding a bus. In that instant, nothing appeared to trigger it, and I didn’t experience any fear until the overwhelming sensation struck me, making me feel as if I was on the verge of death. The attack left me feeling dizzy, fostering an intense worry that I might faint and die right then and there. Following that episode, my heart raced throughout the day, and I began experiencing intermittent chest pains that seemed to originate from my heart. Initially, these were sharp twinges accompanying each heartbeat (though they were not continuous), but then yesterday, I suffered another unexpected panic attack while at work. This episode also caught me off guard and diminished my appetite, while the chest discomfort transitioned from sharp pains to a sensation of tightness or squeezing. I shared my concerns with my parents, but my mother dismissed my feelings, labeling me as a hypochondriac. She suggested I wait until Monday to assess my condition and then make an appointment with the general practitioner. However, I’m aware that the NHS in my area has long waiting times, potentially taking months before I could see someone. Since these two anxiety attacks, I’ve felt mentally exhausted. Each wave of pain brings me to the brink of tears, not due to unbearable agony, but rather from the fear that something could be seriously wrong with my health. As the day progresses, I sense my energy waning, largely due to my diminished appetite, stemming from the discomfort and accompanying nausea. Moreover, I’ve experienced periods of difficulty breathing, which arise unexpectedly, leaving me gasping for breath and struggling to take deep inhalations. What are my next steps?

Panic AttacksAnxietyDepression
Male25-34
4 hours ago

Experiencing Dizziness and Rapid Heartbeat on Treadmill — Normal Heart Tests, Yet Anxious. What Could Be the Reason?

Greetings everyone, I'm a 32-year-old male. After consistently hitting the gym for a month, I encountered an alarming event on day 30. During my treadmill workout, I jogged for about five minutes before transitioning to a walk. Out of nowhere, I felt a surge in my heart rate, a wave of dizziness washed over me, and I almost lost consciousness. I managed to find a seat to compose myself. Subsequently, I visited the emergency room where they conducted an ECG and checked my Troponin levels along with other blood tests. All results were within normal ranges, apart from a minor increase in Troponin. This prompted the doctors to recommend an angiogram, which thankfully revealed no issues. After the procedure, I was sent home. However, merely four days later, I faced a similar episode that involved dizziness and an accelerating heartbeat. I returned to my doctor, who explained that symptoms like these might occur due to blood vessel constriction triggered by cold exposure or stress. He provided me with some medication. It's now been ten days, and I feel physically well, but I'm grappling with persistent anxiety, fear, and a low mood stemming from that frightening experience. Has anyone else gone through a comparable situation? I am eager to understand: • How can such experiences occur despite the majority of health assessments appearing normal? • Could factors like anxiety or intense exertion contribute to these symptoms? • What actions should I consider moving forward in terms of exercise, lifestyle changes, mental health strategies, and follow-up medical visits?

AnxietyDepressionStress
Male25-34
7 hours ago