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Concerned Moments with My Toddler

8/9/2025, 3:30:38 PMMale25-34

My baby boy, aged 16 months, weighs 22.5 pounds and measures 30 inches tall. He isn't on any medications and doesn't have any known health issues. However, an unsettling incident occurred last night. We were driving to pick up dinner when he dozed off. He had barely napped for about twenty minutes throughout the day, and since it was around 7 PM, I assumed he was just tired (he was a bit fussy, but with us adjusting back to the school schedule, it didn’t seem unusual). Approximately twenty minutes into his car nap, he suddenly began to scream intensely, as if something dreadful was happening. We quickly pulled over, and I took him out of his car seat to comfort him, but nothing seemed to calm him down. He covered his eyes with his hands and continued to wail. I tried offering him a drink from my cup using a straw—he always loves doing that—but he simply turned his head away. That’s when I expressed my concern to my husband that he might be in pain. My husband held him while he continued to scream. In an attempt to soothe him, I placed a drop of juice on his tongue. To my relief, he stopped screaming, opened his eyes wide, and took a couple more sips of juice. This entire episode lasted barely a minute and a half, but it genuinely frightened me. Once he drank some juice, I managed to climb into the back seat and strap him back in. He appeared perfectly fine, albeit a bit tired. He stayed awake during the short drive home, and once we arrived, he had some food and a drink before falling asleep again. This morning, he seems to be doing well. I’m still trying to make sense of what happened; it was quite alarming!

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Cony

8/9/2025, 3:30:58 PM

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It's understandable to feel alarmed after witnessing such an intense episode with your toddler. Sudden screaming and panic can certainly be distressing for both you and your child. Based on what you've described, it sounds like he may have experienced a brief episode related to waking from a deep sleep, which can sometimes occur in young children.

Explanation

Children often go through phases of sleep where they can be startled or confused upon waking. This can lead to episodes of crying or screaming, particularly if they feel disoriented or are in a state of deep sleep. It's also possible that he was feeling emotional after a long day and the sudden waking from a nap triggered that response.

Next Steps

  1. Monitor Behavior: Keep an eye on his behavior over the next few days. Look out for any unusual episodes or signs of distress that last longer than what you experienced.

  2. Routine Sleep Schedule: Ensure he has a consistent bedtime routine that allows him to get adequate sleep during the day and night. A well-rested toddler is usually happier and less prone to such outbursts.

  3. Comforting Techniques: Continue to use comforting techniques that work well for him, such as comforting touches, soft voices, or familiar snacks and drinks (like the juice), to help soothe him if he seems upset after waking.

  4. Document Any Changes: If you notice a pattern of similar episodes, taking note of when they occur, what precedes them, and how he responds can be helpful for future reference.

  5. Stay Calm and Reassuring: If he has another similar episode, try to stay calm. Your reassurance can help him feel safe and secure.

When to Seek More Help

If these episodes occur frequently, last longer than a couple of minutes, or are accompanied by other concerning symptoms like high fever, changes in appetite or activity level, or unusual behavior, consider discussing your concerns with a healthcare provider.

It's great to hear that he seems to be back to his usual self today. Trust your instincts as a parent, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support if you continue to have concerns. You're doing a wonderful job looking out for your child's well-being!

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