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Concerns About Possible HIV Exposure

8/9/2025, 10:50:21 AMMale25-34

Male, 29 years old, weighing 200 pounds and standing at 5'10". I recently had a sexual encounter that has left me feeling anxious. During this event, I engaged in oral sex and had some skin-to-skin contact, which included touching their genitalia after I had been stimulated. I'm worried about the potential risk of HIV transmission through precum. To be cautious, I underwent testing the very next day, and the results came back negative. I also performed oral sex while wearing a condom. I’m seeking clarity on my risk of contracting HIV, considering the other person’s status was unknown; however, I was informed that they were supposedly healthy.

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Cony

8/9/2025, 10:50:37 AM

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It's understandable to feel anxious after a potential HIV exposure, especially when the other person's status is unknown. Let's break down the situation regarding HIV risk and what steps you can take moving forward.

Key Points:

  1. Risk Assessment: The risk of HIV transmission varies depending on the type of sexual activity. Oral sex is generally considered to be a lower-risk activity compared to anal or vaginal sex.
  2. Testing: Testing negative for HIV the day after exposure is a good sign, but keep in mind that HIV tests are most accurate after a window period of about 2-4 weeks.
  3. Prevention Strategies: If you're concerned about exposure in the future, consider preventive measures such as PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) if you find yourself in similar situations often.

Explanation:

  • Oral Sex and Risk: Engaging in oral sex, especially while wearing a condom, significantly lowers the risk of HIV transmission. While precum can have the virus, it is less likely to transmit compared to other fluids. Skin-to-skin contact typically does not transmit HIV unless there are open sores or cuts involved.
  • Testing and Window Period: The test you took the day after exposure provides reassurance, but it may not be conclusive. Most healthcare providers recommend retesting at 4-6 weeks for a more accurate result, as this accounts for the time the virus may take to become detectable.

Next Steps:

  1. Get Retested: Schedule another HIV test for about 4-6 weeks after your potential exposure for more accurate results.
  2. Monitor Your Health: Pay attention to any unusual symptoms (fever, fatigue, swollen lymph nodes). These can sometimes indicate a recent infection, though many people remain asymptomatic.
  3. Practice Safe Sex: Always use condoms and consider discussing PrEP with a healthcare provider if you are sexually active with partners of unknown status regularly.
  4. Manage Anxiety: It’s common to feel anxious after such encounters. Engaging in stress-relief activities, speaking with trusted friends, or reaching out to mental health resources can help ease your worries.

Your concerns are valid, and it’s understandable to seek clarity. If you have more questions or need further support, feel free to reach out.

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