OpenHealth Q&A

Get answered by medical professionals

Concerns About My Semen Causing Illness

7/31/2025, 6:50:26 AMMale25-34

I know this sounds unusual. About a year ago, my ex-girlfriend (25) began experiencing stomach cramps and nausea after performing oral sex on me. Strangely, each time it happened, she would suffer from these symptoms. Initially, I assumed it might be a change in her body or some new sensitivity that developed over time. However, now that I’m with a new girlfriend (26), she’s encountering the same problem! What puzzles me is that my ex had never experienced these issues before—then suddenly, this problem emerged. Now, my current partner is facing the same reaction. Could there be something concerning about my semen that could lead to health problems? My eating habits and lifestyle haven’t altered during this time, and I haven't started any medication. I would greatly appreciate any insights or advice!

NutritionAgingLifestyle Changes

Answers (1)

Cony

7/31/2025, 6:50:43 AM

OpenHealth AI

It's valid to be concerned about symptoms that your partners are experiencing after oral sex, and it’s great that you want to get to the bottom of this situation. While it’s unlikely that something about your semen directly causes illness, there are a few factors to consider.

Explanation:

Stomach cramps and nausea experienced by your partners after oral sex could stem from various causes. Here are some possible explanations:

  1. Allergic Reactions: Some individuals can develop allergies to proteins found in semen. This is rare, but it can lead to gastrointestinal upset if they are sensitive.

  2. Infections: Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can cause symptoms in partners depending on exposure. If there’s an infection present, it’s essential to get tested.

  3. Physical Sensitivities: Some individuals may develop sensitivities to certain proteins or pH levels, which might lead to discomfort.

  4. Psychological Factors: Anxiety or stress around sexual activity could also lead to gastrointestinal symptoms in some individuals.

Next Steps:

  1. Consider Testing: It’s advisable for both you and your current partner to get tested for STIs, especially since both partners have experienced similar symptoms. This would rule out infections as a cause.

  2. Open Communication: Talk to your partners about their symptoms and keep the conversations open. Understanding their experiences may help clarify any patterns or triggers.

  3. Monitor Symptoms: Have your current partner pay attention to her symptoms. If they continue or worsen, identifying specific foods or situations that lead to nausea could help.

  4. Consult with Health Professional: If symptoms persist, a consultation with a healthcare provider might be necessary for both parties to explore the issue further. They can provide personalized advice and further testing if needed.

  5. Healthy Lifestyle: Continue to maintain a healthy lifestyle and consider discussing your current diet with a nutritionist to ensure it's balanced and supportive of overall health.

It's important to approach this with care, as communication with your partners will help in understanding and addressing their discomfort. If you have any more queries, feel free to ask!

Related Questions

Concerns About Multivitamin Aspirating

Greetings! Earlier this evening, I (35-year-old female, generally healthy and active) inadvertently was a bit careless while taking my multivitamin, which is on the larger side, as is typical for these kinds of supplements. Initially, the pill went down the wrong way, and within seconds, I found myself coughing and managed to bring it back up; however, I believe that I immediately swallowed it again afterwards. I consumed a good amount of water to help wash it down, but the entire episode transpired so quickly that I’m uncertain about what actually happened. My growing anxiety, coupled with my late-night Google search adventures (a familiar story, right?), leads me to fear that I may have "silent aspirated" it. I'm worried about it potentially being lodged in my lungs without me noticing any symptoms, although I understand that it’s probably not very likely. After the brief coughing fit, which lasted around seven seconds, I’ve experienced no further issues— it seems I swallowed it successfully. Should this be a cause for concern? Adding to my unease is the fact that I will be out in the wilderness from tomorrow until Sunday, which definitely heightens my anxiety. I appreciate any reassurance or advice you can provide!

SupplementsLifestyle ChangesFamily Medicine
Male25-34
7 minutes ago

Seeking Insights on Foot Discomfort Related to Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

I am a 23-year-old female diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which makes me prone to various issues related to connective tissues. Recently, I've noticed that my feet have become swollen and emit crackling sounds when touched. Additionally, there are several sensitive areas that produce sharp pain. I've also observed numerous white pressure marks that somewhat resemble my piezogenic papules, although these are larger and not located on my heels. Walking has become quite painful for me. I would greatly appreciate any insights or suggestions regarding this condition!

AgingLifestyle ChangesFamily Medicine
Male25-34
28 minutes ago

Concerns Regarding Colon Health

Hi there, I'm a 22-year-old male feeling quite anxious about my gastrointestinal health. Over the past few months, I've noticed blood when wiping after a bowel movement, although I'm uncertain if it's actually present in my stool. Additionally, I've experienced noticeable weight loss and a decrease in appetite over the last few weeks. There are also moments when I feel a persistent discomfort in my anal area. In addition to these symptoms, I'm facing some neurological challenges, including involuntary movements and frequent blinking. Fatigue has become a constant companion, and I sometimes experience bloating. I'm not overweight, but I don't maintain the healthiest eating habits. Regarding family medical history, I'm unsure if there are any colon-related issues. I haven't seeking medical advice because I struggle with agoraphobia, which makes it difficult to visit a doctor. As a result, I've been largely sedentary and haven’t engaged in any physical activity. I’m uncertain whether my symptoms stem from my lack of movement or indicate a more serious colon problem. Honestly, I'm feeling quite anxious and would greatly appreciate professional guidance on how to proceed.

NutritionAgingFamily Medicine
Male25-34
38 minutes ago

28F - Three Years of Itchy Ears and Odor: Seeking Solutions

I am a 28-year-old woman, standing at 5'8" and weighing 130 pounds. I do not smoke and am not currently taking any medications. For the past three years, I have been dealing with a persistent itch in my ears, accompanied by an unpleasant smell and some foul-smelling discharge. Despite trying various treatments including oral antibiotics, antibiotic ear drops, and steroids, I have yet to see any improvement. During my visit to the doctor, I received a recommendation to avoid using Q-tips and was told that "some individuals simply experience itchy ears." However, I am convinced that a solution exists! I'm reaching out for any advice or insights on the potential causes of my symptoms or remedies that may alleviate this incessant itching.

AgingWellnessFamily Medicine
Male25-34
38 minutes ago

Notice of a Dark Line on My Toenail

Hello, I’m a 21-year-old male, and I've recently noticed a dark, see-through line appearing on my index toe. Initially, I believed it was just a smudge, but it has persisted for five months and appears to be extending from the nail bed. Could this be a sign of a potential health issue? I've been smoking regularly for a year and consume alcohol on occasion, about once a month. My eating habits are somewhat selective; however, I do try my best to incorporate vegetables into my weekly meals. I hope that information is helpful.

AgingLifestyle ChangesFamily Medicine
Male25-34
1 hour ago