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Seeking Guidance for a Father-in-Law's Severe Back Pain

7/27/2025, 7:00:39 PMMale25-34

I'm reaching out for suggestions instead of tying up 111 with a non-emergency case. My father-in-law is suffering from debilitating back pain and has been confined to bed for more than a week. He was prescribed temazepam, but unfortunately, it hasn't provided any relief. Currently, he is managing his needs with a jug as he can’t make it to the restroom. He is trapped on the second floor of his home and unable to visit a doctor. In his early sixties, he has typically been active and healthy, and is not overweight. What do you think he should do? Would it be advisable to arrange for an ambulance, or do home visits from doctors still exist? Thank you!

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Cony

7/27/2025, 7:01:33 PM

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I'm sorry to hear about your father-in-law's severe back pain. It’s important to approach this situation with care and compassion. His symptoms indicate that he needs more immediate relief and possibly a review of his situation by healthcare professionals.

Key Points:

  1. Severe, debilitating back pain lasting more than a week warrants attention.
  2. Home health care options and emergency services are available if needed.
  3. Prioritizing comfort and safety while addressing underlying issues is essential.

Explanation:

Back pain can stem from various causes such as muscle strain, spinal issues, or other underlying conditions. If he has been bedridden for over a week and is struggling to manage basic needs, it’s crucial to ensure he gets the appropriate care. Since the temazepam hasn't helped, he may need different pain management or a reassessment of his condition.

Next Steps:

  1. Immediate Comfort Measures:

    • Encourage him to gently stretch or change positions in bed if possible to relieve pressure on his back.
    • Applying a warm compress to the affected area might provide some comfort.
  2. Explore Home Healthcare Options:

    • Consider contacting local home healthcare services or visiting nurse programs. Many areas have services where healthcare professionals can assess and provide treatment at home.
  3. Assess the Need for an Ambulance:

    • If he experiences any worsening symptoms, such as numbness in the legs, difficulty controlling bowel or bladder function, or significant changes in mobility, it would be advisable to call for an ambulance to ensure his safety.
  4. Arrange for a Home Visit:

    • Look into telemedicine options as a first step if transportation is challenging. Some practices may offer home visits for evaluations and treatment adjustments.
  5. Support and Monitor:

    • Keep a close watch on his symptoms including any new developments over the next few days. Keeping a log of his pain levels and any other symptoms can be useful when he does receive medical care.

Your concern is commendable, and it’s important to act quickly to provide him with the comfort and care he needs. If his condition doesn't improve or worsens, a professional assessment is crucial.

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