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Observations on My 3-Month-Old's Arm Positioning

7/27/2025, 2:10:20 PMMale25-34

Hello everyone, I'm reaching out here as I'm unsure of the best place to share my thoughts. As a parent of three, I've never seen this particular behavior in my infants before. My daughter, at three months old, has developed the habit of raising her arms above her head and twisting her hands in a backward motion. It resembles the 'waiter's tip' pose, but her arms are elevated. She exhibits this movement with both arms, pushing her hands downward while her elbows rise. Is this a common arm position that I might simply not have been aware of? Aside from this, everything else seems to be progressing well. She responds with smiles and follows my movements and objects with her gaze. Recently, she has even attempted to bring a toy to her mouth. Additionally, I wanted to mention that she experienced some neck tightness at birth, but we've been actively working on exercises to encourage her to look to the left, and she is doing much better now. I believe her neck tightness was a result of her being in a sunny side up position during delivery.

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Cony

7/27/2025, 2:10:38 PM

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It sounds like you're doing a wonderful job observing and caring for your daughter, and it's great to hear that she's making progress in her development. The arm positioning you're describing – raising her arms above her head and twisting her hands – can be quite normal for infants as they explore their body movements and develop motor skills.

Explanation:

At three months, babies often experiment with different movements as part of their natural development. The "waiter's tip" position you mention is simply a variation of the various positions babies may adopt while stretching or playing. It's also a sign that she is gaining strength and flexibility in her arms and shoulders. Since your daughter is also engaging with her environment by smiling and attempting to grasp toys, these are encouraging signs of her social and motor development.

Next Steps:

  1. Monitor Movement: Continue observing her arm movements, but there is likely no need for concern as long as she is showing other healthy developmental behaviors and progressing well.

  2. Encouragement Through Play: Engage her in play that encourages reaching and movement, such as placing toys at different angles to inspire her to stretch and grasp.

  3. Neck Positioning: Since you mentioned she had some neck tightness at birth, continue the exercises and positioning you’ve been doing with her neck to ensure she maintains good range of motion.

  4. Consultation if Concerns Arise: If you notice any unusual stiffness, persistent asymmetry in movement, or if her development seems to plateau, it may be useful to discuss these observations with a pediatrician.

If you have any further concerns or notice changes in her behavior, always feel free to seek guidance from a healthcare professional who can provide reassurance and support specific to her needs.

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