Concerns Regarding My Daughter's Ear Health
I am seeking advice concerning my three-year-old daughter, who has a notable history of chronic otitis media. Throughout her life, she has undergone six sets of pressure-equalizing (PE) tube placements, with almost all having fallen out shortly after insertion, except for one. Additionally, she has congenital moderate sensorineural hearing loss (SNHL) in her left ear. Both of her eardrums display slight scarring due to recurrent infections and the presence of PE tubes. Currently, there is a mass in her right ear that, at first glance, appeared to be fluid due to its droplet-like form. However, this mass has remained unchanged in position for over three weeks and resembles the malleus head. On the upper right quadrant of her right eardrum, two yellowish holes can be seen, separated by a septum-like structure. The second hole has a white formation protruding from it, which resembles a "pearl with a tail," potentially indicating the malleus; notably, it seems to be in front of the eardrum. Importantly, this mass is static and has not changed in appearance or location for more than a month. In early June, she experienced an ear infection that took 12 days and the use of two different antibiotics to fully resolve. She has also had two unexplained episodes of bleeding from her right ear, yet there are no visible signs of perforation or any apparent infection. Lately, there has been increased redness in the ear, along with a peculiar intermittent odor reminiscent of decaying leaves, somewhat sweet in nature. Given that my daughter is autistic and demonstrates a high tolerance for discomfort, it has been challenging to ascertain whether she is experiencing pain or hearing loss in her right ear. Nonetheless, she has been waking frequently during the night and displaying greater irritability lately. I have scheduled an appointment for her on August 11, but I am uncertain whether it is advisable to wait until then for evaluation. I'm reaching out for guidance on whether immediate action is warranted.
Answers (1)

7/25/2025, 3:21:18 AM
OpenHealth AI
It's understandable to be concerned about your daughter's ear health, especially given her history of chronic ear issues and recent changes in her symptoms. It sounds like you're observant and proactive, which is essential in managing her care.
Main Points:
- Current Symptoms: Your daughter’s unchanged mass in the right ear and history of bleeding and odor suggest that immediate evaluation may be prudent.
- Future Appointments: While you have an appointment scheduled for August 11, the combination of symptoms you're describing may warrant more immediate attention to ensure her ear health is properly managed.
Explanation:
Your daughter's chronic otitis media and multiple PE tubes suggest she has experienced significant ear challenges. The presence of a mass that has not changed for three weeks, increased redness, bleeding episodes, and an unusual odor could indicate a variety of conditions, including infection, a cholesteatoma, or other issues that may need further evaluation. The odor and changes in behavior (like increased irritability and waking during the night) could also indicate that something is amiss.
Next Steps:
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Immediate Evaluation:
- Contact your healthcare provider to discuss your daughter’s current symptoms (especially the mass, bleeding, and odor) and consider requesting an earlier appointment or even a referral to an ear, nose, and throat (ENT) specialist if possible.
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Symptom Monitoring:
- Keep a record of any additional symptoms, including changes in her behavior, signs of pain (like tugging on the ear), or hearing changes. This information can be valuable for the healthcare provider.
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Infection Indicators:
- Watch for signs of infection such as fever, persistent pain, or increased drainage from the ear. If these occur, seek immediate medical attention.
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Comfort Measures:
- Ensure she is comfortable and safe while waiting for her appointment. If she appears in pain, over-the-counter pain relievers appropriate for her age may help.
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Support Needs:
- Given her autism, it’s essential to create a calm environment and discuss any upcoming medical evaluations or interventions in a way she can understand, helping to minimize anxiety.
Your daughter's health is a priority, so don't hesitate to reach out to your healthcare team sooner if you feel it's necessary. You are making the right choice by paying close attention to her symptoms and seeking guidance.
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