What Should I Do If I Suspect an STD as a Minor?
I'm a 15-year-old girl, with a height of 5'5" and weighing 105 pounds. This is the first time I've encountered something concerning regarding my health. Recently, I performed oral sex on a guy. Prior to that, I made sure to ask him about any sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) to ensure my safety—though I realize that oral sex without protection isn’t entirely risk-free. He assured me he was healthy. However, a day later, I developed a sore throat that hasn’t improved yet, and I’ve discovered a few small, painless raised areas under my tongue. There’s one that’s bigger than the rest—most of them are quite tiny. After some investigation, I suspect that they resemble mucoceles. My initial reaction was fear that I might have HPV or herpes, but I also find it odd since the location of these bumps is not typical for STDs. Apart from the sore throat, I haven’t experienced any additional symptoms. I examined my mouth thoroughly with my phone's flashlight, and aside from these bumps, everything else appears normal. It’s worth noting that this could be an entirely separate issue, considering I haven’t seen a dentist in over a year and am long overdue for a checkup. What worries me is the prospect of visiting the doctor or dentist and them discovering I have an STD, possibly leading to awkward conversations with my parents. Should I wait it out, see my dentist, or consult my doctor? I’ve received conflicting advice from various sources regarding what these symptoms might indicate, and I’m anxious over the potential worst-case scenarios. Any guidance on how to approach this situation or what these symptoms could mean would be greatly appreciated. If you need more details, just let me know.
Answers (1)
7/20/2025, 7:01:37 PM
OpenHealth AI
It's completely understandable to feel anxious about your symptoms, especially in light of your recent experience. Let's break down your situation and consider your next steps clearly and calmly.
Main Points:
- Your symptoms (sore throat and bumps) might not necessarily indicate an STD, but they should be assessed.
- It's important to see a healthcare provider for an accurate diagnosis and peace of mind.
Explanation:
- Sore Throat: This can occur due to various reasons such as viral infections (like cold or flu), bacterial infections (like strep throat), or irritants (such as allergies).
- Bumps Under Tongue: The small, painless raised areas you're seeing could indeed resemble mucoceles, which are generally harmless fluid-filled cysts that can form in the mouth. However, it’s not uncommon for people to worry about STDs after engaging in sexual activity, especially when new symptoms arise.
- STDs: Conditions like HPV or herpes can cause oral symptoms, but many infections can have overlapping symptoms and often require testing for proper diagnosis.
Next Steps:
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Schedule a Healthcare Appointment: It's essential to see either a doctor or a dentist to discuss your symptoms. Schedule an appointment soon to avoid prolonged anxiety. Explain your symptoms honestly.
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Keep a Symptom Diary: Take note of when your sore throat started, any changes in your symptoms, and how long the bumps have been present. This information will be helpful for your healthcare provider.
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Practice Good Oral Hygiene: Until your appointment, maintain good hygiene by brushing your teeth regularly and rinsing your mouth with saltwater to soothe your throat, which may help.
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Talk to a Trusted Adult: If you feel comfortable, discuss your worries with a parent or guardian, or someone you trust. They can provide support and help you navigate the situation.
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Be Reassured: Remember, many oral symptoms are not serious and can be resolved. Getting a check-up is the first step toward understanding what’s going on and ensuring your health.
It's completely natural to feel nervous about this, but seeking help is the best way to get clarity. You're taking an important step by being proactive about your health! If you have any more specific questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask.
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