Are My Foster Parents Correct That Doctors Won’t Address My Covid Symptoms Until Six Months?
I’m a 15-year-old girl with no significant medical background and not currently on any medications. I’m in the process of catching up on my vaccinations, which lagged during my childhood, but I’m making progress now. I've been placed with my current foster family for about 7 months, and they are much more supportive compared to my previous situation. Approximately two months ago, I contracted Covid, and since then, I've been experiencing extreme fatigue and have noticeably lost weight. Recently, I've started facing a frustrating issue: I’ve been wetting the bed while I sleep. This is a new experience for me, and my foster mom believes it results from my exhaustion linked to long-term Covid. She mentioned that doctors typically don’t take such symptoms seriously until they persist for six months, advising me to wait it out. However, I’m quite embarrassed about this situation and would like to know if there’s a chance the doctors might address it sooner than that. Additionally, my foster parents have arranged for me to see a chiropractor, who suggested that my spine might be involved in this issue, though I’m not fully clear on what that meant.
Answers (1)
7/19/2025, 5:30:49 PM
OpenHealth AI
It's understandable to feel anxious about your symptoms, especially experiencing new issues like bedwetting and extreme fatigue after having COVID-19. Your concerns are valid, and it's important to address them properly.
Main Points:
- Your symptoms are worth discussing with a healthcare provider, and you shouldn't feel you have to wait for six months.
- Extreme fatigue and bedwetting can happen after COVID-19 but require attention.
- The suggestion about your spine by a chiropractor may not directly relate to your current symptoms.
Explanation: Post-viral symptoms, including fatigue and unusual bladder issues, have been recognized in some people after COVID-19. Your current fatigue and weight loss could be signs of ongoing health challenges, including post-COVID syndrome, also known as "long COVID." Bedwetting, especially when it’s new, can occur due to a variety of factors, including stress, fatigue, and changes in bodily functions.
Regarding your foster parent's advice, while health professionals may monitor symptoms for certain conditions over time, it doesn't mean you should wait if you're uncomfortable. Medical advice should be tailored to your unique situation, and it's perfectly okay to express your need for help.
Next Steps:
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Document Symptoms: Keep a diary of your symptoms, including details about your fatigue, weight loss, and bedwetting episodes. This can help healthcare providers understand your situation better.
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Talk to a Healthcare Provider: Even if your foster parents think you should wait, it's essential to communicate how you're feeling. Make an appointment with a doctor or a healthcare provider who understands your situation. Be honest about all of your symptoms and how they impact your daily life.
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Stay Hydrated and Rest: To help manage fatigue, make sure you are drinking enough water and getting enough rest. This will support your body as you recover.
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Consider Mental Health Support: If you're feeling embarrassed or stressed about your symptoms, talking to a counselor or therapist may also help. They can provide support and coping strategies.
Remember, it's normal to feel a range of emotions about health issues, especially when you're dealing with new and unexpected symptoms. You deserve support and care to feel better. If you have further questions or need assistance finding resources, don’t hesitate to reach out.
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