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Am I Experiencing Damage to My Anus?

7/13/2025, 11:10:16 PMMale25-34

Age: 23 Gender: Male No medications taken. Between the ages of 14 and 17, I dabbled in anal play, engaging in it about twice a month, sometimes for a few consecutive days. My experiences mainly involved using fingers or small objects. Occasionally, I felt discomfort, but it lasted no more than 10 minutes, and I never noticed any blood during that time. Throughout those three years, I perceived a slight decrease in tightness in that area, yet I faced no significant issues at the time. However, I now find myself questioning if I may have caused any harm. Following bowel movements, I’ve noticed that cleaning myself has become more challenging. It seems that after a short while, that area gets dirty again, even right after a thorough shower. While my anus may feel clean initially, my butt crack still tends to carry an unpleasant odor. Additionally, I’ve observed that my flatulence seems to escape much easier, and there is less sound accompanying it. The region around my butt crack often feels damp, which I suspect could also relate to sweating. While my issues may not seem severe, I am plagued by a significant sense of guilt regarding my past activities.

ArthritisInternal MedicineRheumatology

Answers (1)

Cony

7/13/2025, 11:10:31 PM

OpenHealth AI

You're raising some important concerns about discomfort, cleanliness, and possible changes in your anal area following your past experiences with anal play. It's understandable to feel worried about these changes, and it's good that you're seeking clarity.

Key Points:

  1. Concerns about Damage: Your feelings of discomfort and changes in the area could be related to sensitivity or muscle tone in the anal region, not necessarily damage.
  2. Hygiene Issues: The challenge you experience with cleanliness and odor could stem from several factors, including hygiene practices, skin conditions, or even sweat.
  3. Flatulence Changes: Noticing changes in flatulence, such as less sound, could relate to muscle tone as well.

Explanation:

  1. Anal Hygiene: It’s natural for the anal area to be a bit tricky when it comes to maintaining cleanliness, especially after bowel movements. The dampness you're noticing could be due to skin folds and sweat.

  2. Muscle Tone: Engaging in anal play can sometimes affect the tone of the anal sphincter. Feeling less tightness could be a normal result of this play, but it might also contribute to the sensation that flatulence is escaping more easily.

  3. Mental Guilt: The guilt you're feeling may be more psychological than physiological. Understanding that many individuals explore their bodies in similar ways can help alleviate that guilt.

Next Steps:

  1. Improve Hygiene:

    • Use gentle, unscented wipes after bowel movements instead of just toilet paper, which can help maintain freshness.
    • After using the toilet or after anal play, a mild soap and warm water may help you stay clean without irritation.
  2. Manage Moisture:

    • Consider using a cornstarch-based powder to absorb moisture in the anal area to keep it dry, which may help with odor.
  3. Body Assessment:

    • Pay attention to any significant changes in sensation, discomfort, or the appearance of any unusual lumps or discolorations. If these occur, consider reaching out to a medical professional.
  4. Mental Health:

    • If you're struggling with feelings of guilt or anxiety related to your past activities, speaking to a therapist or counselor can provide support.

By focusing on these steps, you may find improvements in your comfort and confidence concerning this area. Remember, it’s perfectly normal to have concerns, and taking proactive steps is important. If symptoms persist or worsen, considering a visit to a healthcare provider would be advisable for a thorough evaluation.

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