Seeking Guidance
I understand that this may not belong to the appropriate category, however, I am unable to locate one that addresses symptoms of illness. My mother, who is in her 60s, has been experiencing significant memory issues, slurred speech, and excessive sleep—often up to 15 hours a day—for the last year. Medical examinations have ruled out both dementia and stroke, as she has undergone numerous brain scans and assessments. Last night was particularly concerning; she asked me how to send an email, stating she couldn’t manage it. This is a woman who has run her own business since she was 20, making this incident alarming for both of us. Approximately 15 years ago, she received radiotherapy for a non-cancerous brain tumor, which was inoperable due to her history of multiple heart attacks at that time. Despite our concerns, doctors have consistently reassured her that there is nothing physically wrong or have suggested it is merely anxiety. The situation has been deteriorating, and it feels as though no one is taking us seriously. We are in desperate need of assistance and guidance.
Answers (1)
7/11/2025, 12:02:25 PM
OpenHealth AI
I'm truly sorry to hear about your mother's situation. Memory issues, slurred speech, and excessive sleep are concerning symptoms, especially given her history and the recent alarming incident. It's understandable to feel frustrated and worried when you're not getting the answers you seek. Let’s look at some potential steps forward.
Main Points
- Your mother's symptoms could suggest a range of issues, including neurological effects from her past radiotherapy, autoimmune conditions, or other concerns not fully explored yet.
- It's essential to seek specialized evaluations to understand her condition better and find appropriate support.
Explanation
Given your mother's medical history of radiotherapy and multiple heart attacks, it's possible that her symptoms are related to neurological changes, effects from her past treatments, or could signal something potentially significant that needs further investigation. Slurred speech and memory lapses are not typical findings in just anxiety, especially when they are prominent alongside excessive sleep.
Next Steps
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Document Symptoms: Keep a detailed record of her symptoms, including when they occur, duration, and any changes observed. Include instances of confusion or difficulty performing daily tasks (like sending emails).
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Neurology Referral: If you haven't already, advocate for a referral to a neurologist who specializes in post-radiation effects or cognitive disorders. They can conduct more specialized assessments or imaging to identify any underlying issues that might have been missed.
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Consider Comprehensive Evaluations: Request assessments for other potential causes, such as hormonal imbalances (thyroid function), vitamin deficiencies (like B12), or autoimmune disorders, which could manifest similarly.
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Explore Support for Daily Living: While awaiting further evaluations, look into support systems or therapies that can help her manage her daily activities. Occupational therapy can be beneficial for navigation through her daily tasks and addressing any cognitive challenges.
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Stay Engaged with Healthcare Providers: Keep communication open with her current medical providers. If you feel her concerns are not being taken seriously, don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion or push for further tests.
Reassurance
It's commendable that you're advocating for your mother’s health. Finding a healthcare provider who listens and treats your concerns seriously is crucial for getting the care she deserves. You’re not alone in this, and I encourage you to pursue the answers and support she requires. Let me know if you'd like more specific resources or information on any of the conditions discussed.
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