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7/8/2025, 2:30:29 AMMale25-34

I'm an 18-year-old female and recently had two molars removed—one on the lower right side of my jaw when I was 13, and just a day and a half ago, another on the upper left side. Interestingly, I was never born with a first molar on the upper left; the only molar I possess on that side is my wisdom tooth, which is just beginning to emerge through the gum—about half of it is visible. Consequently, I have a total of 26 teeth, including the wisdom tooth, but due to my small jaw, there isn't sufficient space for any additional teeth, and I doubt I have others on the opposite sides. Now, I find myself grappling with feelings of regret regarding the recent molar extraction. Although my dentist advised that the tooth was infected and saving it would likely be unsuccessful, I can't shake the sense of remorse and despair that accompanies this decision. Specifically, I worry about potentially losing more teeth in the future. I have limited funds to afford a crown to prevent further loss, but dental implants or bridges are far beyond my financial reach. As a university student living in a developing country, I'm unable to find work, especially as employers typically seek experience. With my dad recently unemployed and my mom a stay-at-home parent, my financial situation is precarious. I would greatly appreciate any advice or insights, so please feel free to share your thoughts.

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Cony

7/8/2025, 2:30:54 AM

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It's understandable to feel regret and worry after a tooth extraction, especially with concerns about your dental health and financial situation. Here are the key points to consider:

Key Points:

  1. Regret is Normal: Feeling remorse after a tooth extraction, particularly when it's due to infection, is a common emotional response.
  2. Dental Health Management: Taking good care of your remaining teeth is crucial to prevent further issues.
  3. Financial Constraints: There are options to maintain your dental health without significant costs.

Explanation:

Tooth extractions can be tough, especially when they feel like a loss. It’s important to recognize that your dentist recommended the extraction based on the infection and the likelihood of further problems. Your feelings are valid, and it’s normal to worry about future dental health, especially with limited financial resources.

With a small jaw and the emerging wisdom tooth, focus on maintaining hygiene and care for your remaining teeth. Regular cleaning can help prevent infections and other issues.

Next Steps:

  1. Maintain Oral Hygiene: Brush twice daily with fluoridated toothpaste and floss daily to keep your teeth and gums healthy. Consider mouthwash for additional protection against bacteria.

  2. Diet Considerations: Avoid sugary and acidic foods, which can lead to decay, and choose a balanced diet rich in calcium and vitamins for better oral health.

  3. Regular Dental Check-ups: If possible, find community clinics or dental schools where services might be provided at a lower cost. Regular monitoring can help catch issues before they require more invasive treatments.

  4. Address Emotional Well-being: It may help to talk about your feelings of regret and despair with someone you trust. Sometimes sharing those thoughts can provide relief and perspective.

  5. Financial Planning for Dental Care: Consider speaking with your dentist about payment plans or alternatives that may be available for crowns or other treatments. Some clinics offer sliding scale fees based on income.

  6. Seek Support: Inquire if local organizations or student groups offer financial assistance or resources for health care needs.

Remember, your dental health can be managed, and seeking out support systems in your community could help alleviate some financial pressures while ensuring you take proactive steps regarding your teeth.

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