OpenHealth Q&A

Get answered by medical professionals

Seeking Advice: Health Concerns Not Being Taken Seriously!

7/2/2025, 5:10:28 AMMale25-34

As a 29-year-old male, standing at 5'9" and weighing 157 pounds, I consider myself a light smoker. I'm reaching out for insights or alternative perspectives on my situation, as any assistance would mean a lot to me. A few months back, I visited the emergency room due to a kidney stone. The medical staff assured me that I would likely pass it without much difficulty, yet I remain unconvinced that it's gone. While the specific symptoms of the kidney stone have subsided, I have noticed that my urination habits have drastically changed, becoming much more frequent since that visit in May. From that point onward, a series of troubling symptoms have emerged, and it's hard to believe they're merely coincidental. In June, I began experiencing sporadic sharp pains in various areas of my abdomen. At times, I even noticed blood in my stool. Additionally, my bowel movements have largely been inconsistent and not solid for several years; I realize now that I should have sought help for that much earlier. Along with these physical issues, I began struggling with intense feelings of anxiety, which felt persistent rather than just fleeting episodes. This strange sensation would jolt me awake unexpectedly, preventing me from getting restful sleep, and it lasted for several days. When I brought this up to my primary care physician, he suggested the possibility of lactose intolerance or irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and prescribed medication for the anxiety. Recently, a painful sore appeared on my leg, becoming especially bothersome while showering. The hair around that area has also fallen out. Today, upon closer inspection, it has become much more inflamed and noticeable. I genuinely feel like there’s a message my body is conveying, but I'm unsure if this is tied to the lactose intolerance or anxiety that my doctor suggested. I can share photos of the sore if needed, but I am becoming increasingly anxious about my health, and it’s affecting my daily life. Any guidance or perspectives would truly be invaluable to me. It has been several months, and all I wish for is to regain a sense of normalcy!

AgingFamily MedicinePreventive Medicine

Answers (1)

Cony

7/2/2025, 5:10:45 AM

OpenHealth AI

I understand that you're experiencing a range of concerning symptoms, and feeling anxious about your health is completely valid. It's important to address these worries seriously and systematically. Let’s break down your situation and focus on the most pressing issues while prioritizing what you can do next.

Key Points:

  1. Change in Urination: Increased frequency could be linked to several issues, including residual effects from your kidney stone.
  2. Abdominal Pain and Blood in Stool: These could indicate gastrointestinal issues, possibly related to the IBS your doctor mentioned.
  3. Anxiety and Sleep Disturbance: These symptoms can exacerbate physical issues, creating a cycle of discomfort and stress.
  4. Sore on Leg: The inflammation and hair loss in that area need attention, as they could indicate an infection or another skin condition.

Explanation:

Your body is indeed trying to communicate, and multiple changes can be intertwined. The kidney stone’s aftermath may also be affecting your urinary habits. Symptoms like abdominal pain and bloody stool are significant and warrant timely evaluation; they could be related to digestive disorders or other underlying conditions. Anxiety can amplify physical symptoms, so addressing both the mental and physical aspects is key.

Next Steps:

  1. Monitor Symptoms: Keep a detailed log of your symptoms, including urinary habits, bowel movements, abdominal pain (location, intensity), and any changes to the sore on your leg (size, color, pain level). This can help identify patterns and will be useful for any healthcare professional if you seek further evaluation.

  2. Hydration and Diet: Increase your water intake, especially if you're experiencing kidney-related issues. Pay attention to your diet; consider keeping a food diary to see if any specific items might trigger your gastrointestinal symptoms, especially lactose if intolerance is suspected.

  3. Address the Sore: Clean the sore gently and keep it covered to prevent infection. You may apply an over-the-counter antibiotic ointment, but watch for signs of worsening, like increased redness, swelling, or pus.

  4. Seek Further Medical Attention: Given the combination of persistent symptoms and the sore on your leg, it would be advisable to seek a follow-up appointment with your healthcare provider. Emphasize any changes in your symptoms, particularly the sore and the blood in stool, as these require urgent evaluation.

  5. Anxiety Management: In addition to your prescribed medication, consider mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing exercises or meditation, to help manage anxiety and improve sleep.

It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed, but addressing each symptom systematically will guide you toward better health. Remember, seeking a second opinion or more specialized care (like a gastroenterologist or dermatologist for the sore) is always an option if you're feeling your concerns aren't being taken seriously. You're taking a proactive step by reaching out for help, and I encourage you to continue advocating for your health.

Related Questions

Understanding My ER Lab Results

As a 25-year-old female weighing 151 pounds and standing at 5 feet 3 inches, I recently returned from the emergency room and am still deciphering the implications of my lab results. My health has been quite poor lately; I’ve experienced constant fatigue, confusion, and discomfort in my back and stomach. Last week, I found out that my potassium levels were significantly elevated, prompting the doctors to schedule a follow-up test. The positive news is that my potassium levels are back to normal, but I'm still uncertain about the meaning of some other tests. Could anyone clarify what eGFR or venous oxygen saturation indicates? By the way, I used to smoke, I'm 25 years old, and I have some minor gallbladder concerns. Any insights would be greatly appreciated! # VENOUS BLOOD GAS ANALYSIS **Venous pH:** Normal values: 7.33 - 7.43 **My result:** 7.34 **Venous PO2:** Typical range: 30 - 50 mmHg **My result:** 126 **Venous TCO2:** Standard range: 21 - 31 mmol/L **My result:** 28 **Venous O2 Saturation:** Normal values: 60 - 85% **My result:** 100 **Venous PCO2:** Typical range: 38 - 50 mmHg **My result:** 50 **Venous HCO3:** Standard range: 23 - 27 mmol/L **My result:** 25 **Base Excess in Venous Blood:** Normal values: 0 - 15 mmol/L **My result:** 0 **Barometric Pressure (Venous):** **My result:** 741 mmHg

AgingFamily MedicineInternal Medicine
Male25-34
46 minutes ago

Concerns About Body Proportions

Age: 16 years Gender: Male Weight: 110 kg Height: 181 cm (5'11) Ethnicity: Caucasian/New Zealander Over the past few months, I've observed that my hands and feet appear to be larger than what is typical for someone my age. I wear a size 13 shoe, and when I compare my hands with those of others who are up to six inches taller than me, I often find that my hands are either larger or comparable to theirs in size. It's been about six to eight months since I've had any growth in height, which has caused me to worry that my growth may have come to a halt. Some doctors have even suggested that I might have reached my full height. Will I end up looking disproportionate?

Weight ManagementAgingLifestyle Changes
Male25-34
1 hour ago

Concerns About Spots on the Penis Shaft and Scrotum

Recently, I observed a couple of unusual bumps, one located on the shaft of my penis and another on my scrotum, which have raised some worries for me. I've been in a monogamous relationship with my girlfriend for the past six years, so I’m not too anxious about the possibility of STDs. However, I am curious about these spots. A similar situation arose for me back in 2016, when I encountered a bump that I managed to pop, leading to its eventual disappearance. Initially, I mistook the current bump for a standard Fordyce spot, but it appears to be noticeably larger than the usual ones. I did attempt to pop it (I realize that was unwise, and I won't try that again), but the attempt was unsuccessful and likely exacerbated the issue. It does seem to have increased in size slightly since I first found it a couple of weeks ago, although the change is not drastic, and there are no associated symptoms right now. I’m contemplating whether this could possibly be Molluscum contagiosum.

Lifestyle ChangesFamily MedicineInternal Medicine
Male25-34
1 hour ago

Inquiry About Delaying Anti-Rabies Vaccination

Greetings! I’m a 24-year-old female, weighing 57 kilograms and standing at 5 feet 7 inches tall. I've already received my first two doses of the anti-rabies vaccine on Days 0 and 3. Unfortunately, I’m encountering a scheduling issue for my Day 7 dose. The animal that bit me is our pet, which is also up to date on its vaccinations. Would it be safe to postpone my Day 7 injection by a day or two? Thanks for your assistance!

VaccinationFamily MedicinePreventive Medicine
Male25-34
1 hour ago

Seeking Answers for Unexplained Symptoms

Greetings everyone, I am in search of a skilled medical professional who can help alleviate my concerns, as I seem to have exhausted all available resources with my current healthcare providers. (I am a 27-year-old male, maintain an active lifestyle, and prioritize my health.) Around eight years ago, I began noticing changes such as slight changes to my nails, resembling a thin glass watch, and mild thickening along with a bright red appearance at the tips. Initially, I consulted with my family doctor who subsequently referred me to an excellent internist. Over the course of a year, extensive examinations were performed, including assessments of my heart, lungs, vascular system, rheumatism, and three extensive blood panels, all of which returned normal results. (I also had a session with a pulmonologist and underwent an abdominal ultrasound, among other tests.) At a university medical center, I underwent a thorough evaluation from head to toe. During that assessment, there was a suggestion that my symptoms could be linked to paraneoplastic syndrome; however, there was no definitive evidence supporting this diagnosis. This uncertainty has left me feeling anxious, despite maintaining a stable overall health condition and consistent weight. Nevertheless, I do experience episodes of significant tension, which can be incredibly uncomfortable and even painful at times. After enduring four years of ongoing testing, there is a sense of frustration as it seems we remain without answers regarding the underlying cause of these symptoms.

WellnessFamily MedicineInternal Medicine
Male25-34
2 hours ago