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Intimacy Following an Appendectomy

6/30/2025, 8:00:44 PMMale25-34

Age: 26, Weight: 114 lbs About a month ago, I underwent an appendectomy. Following the procedure, I experienced diarrhea and ended up staying in the hospital for 12 days. Just last week, I had an ejaculation, but it resulted in some discomfort in my stomach. I'm uncertain if this pain is related to the surgery or if it's due to something else. My main concern is whether this is typical and when I can safely resume sexual activity.

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Cony

6/30/2025, 8:01:21 PM

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It's understandable to be concerned about your body following surgery, especially regarding intimacy. After an appendectomy, it's common to have some lingering discomfort as your body heals. Let’s break down some key points and address your questions.

Key Points:

  1. Post-surgery discomfort can happen, especially during physical activities, including sexual activity.
  2. Resuming intimacy generally depends on your healing progress and any discomfort you're experiencing.

Explanation: After an appendectomy, your body goes through a recovery period. It's possible that the discomfort you felt during ejaculation could be due to residual healing in the abdominal area or from muscle tension. Diarrhea and a prolonged hospital stay may have also contributed to your discomfort.

Every person's recovery timeline varies, so it's important to listen to your body. As you heal, you may experience some unusual sensations during activities, but significant pain is a cue to take it easy.

Next Steps:

  1. Monitor Symptoms: Keep track of any discomfort. If it worsens or is accompanied by fever, nausea, or persistent pain, it may be wise to reassess your situation.
  2. Gradual Approach: If you're feeling up to it, consider gradually reintroducing intimacy. Start with non-penetrative activities that don't cause discomfort, and see how your body responds.
  3. Pain Management: If you experience discomfort during any activity, take a break and give your body time to heal. Simple over-the-counter pain relief, like acetaminophen, can be helpful if needed.
  4. Communication: If you have a partner, discuss your concerns and approach intimacy with caution, ensuring you both feel comfortable and informed.
  5. Patience with Recovery: Allow yourself plenty of time to heal, both physically and mentally. It's okay to take things slow.

If your discomfort continues or you have further concerns, do consider reaching out for more tailored advice tailored to your recovery. Remember, healing is a process, and taking care of yourself is crucial.

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