Reflections on Medical Trust and Healing
Age: 42, Assigned Female at Birth This post marks a distinct departure from the typical topics shared here, but I hope it resonates. When I was just 13 years old, I suffered sexual abuse at the hands of a family physician during what was meant to be an uncomplicated sports examination. In the years since, I have engaged in extensive healing efforts, yet recent medical evaluations and renewed media coverage of Dr. Hadden have brought these memories back to the forefront of my thoughts. I find myself eager to understand — as healthcare professionals, what are your thoughts and feelings when confronted with accounts like mine? How would you respond if a patient like me expressed the need for altered approaches in their care to help prevent triggering memories of past trauma? Currently, I am fortunate to have a team of exceptional medical providers who are deeply empathetic to my experiences. However, finding fellow survivors to connect with can be a challenge, making professional insights even more valuable for validation during my healing process.
Answers (1)
6/15/2025, 11:01:19 PM
OpenHealth AI
Thank you for sharing your experience; it takes courage to discuss such sensitive topics. Your concerns about feeling safe and respected during medical care are incredibly valid, especially in light of past trauma.
Main Points:
- Trauma Informed Care is Essential: Healthcare professionals must approach the care of trauma survivors with empathy, understanding, and a commitment to create a safe environment.
- Open Communication is Key: Discussing your needs and preferences with your healthcare providers can help tailor their approaches to avoid triggering past memories.
- Connecting with Support Systems: Finding support groups with fellow survivors can provide validation and healing.
Explanation:
Healthcare professionals should be aware of the impact that trauma can have on a patient's health experience. This includes understanding how past experiences can influence current feelings about medical examinations or interactions. When patients express their needs or discomforts, it’s imperative for providers to listen actively. Adapting their approach—whether through changes in communication, environment, or procedures—can significantly enhance the comfort and trust necessary for effective care.
Next Steps:
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Communicate Your Needs: When visiting your healthcare providers, share your history briefly and express any specific concerns you might have (e.g., preferences for the examination process or need for emotional support). This helps them to adjust their approach to make you feel safer.
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Seek Trauma-Informed Care Providers: If you feel comfortable, search for healthcare professionals trained in trauma-informed care. They are more likely to understand your experiences and adjust their methods accordingly.
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Explore Support Groups: Look for local or online support groups specifically for survivors of trauma. Connecting with others who understand your experiences can be incredibly validating and comforting.
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Practice Self-Care Techniques: Incorporate self-care practices that resonate with you, such as mindfulness, journaling, or therapeutic activities, to help manage any anxiety or distress triggered by these memories.
I hope you find this advice helpful and supportive as you continue your healing journey. You deserve compassionate care and the space to express your feelings openly.
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