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Excessive Fatigue and Uncertainty: Seeking Insights

4/23/2025, 2:10:25 PMMale25-34

Hello everyone, I'm reaching out in hopes of finding some clarity. I’m a 14-year-old girl without any diagnosed health conditions, although I did have my adenoids removed as a child, and I experience some hearing loss due to fluid behind my left eardrum. Despite getting as much as 12 hours of sleep, I still wake up feeling drained. Even a brief 5-minute walk can leave my feet sore—not from my footwear but from fatigue. In public, I often have to lean on my mother or link arms with someone to keep moving. At school, I manage to push through, but I don't have to walk far there. It's not due to poor health habits either. I struggle with ARFID, which means I don’t get a balanced diet, yet even after eating a healthy plate of vegetables, I still feel sluggish. While I spend a fair amount of time on my devices, I also enjoy reading, writing, and occasionally doing art, and these activities don’t seem to enhance my energy levels significantly. Interestingly, I feel most energized while at school, even though I wake up earlier on those days. I suppose it's the motivation of participating in class that drives me. On weekends, however, it’s a struggle just to get out of bed; everything feels overwhelmingly taxing. I don't consume coffee regularly, and even when I do, I don't notice a boost in my energy. I have a sweet tooth, but my weight remains normal to slightly above average—about 65 kg and I’m 5 feet 5 inches tall. I’ve had my iron levels checked and they're within normal limits, though there was something else that prompted my doctor to prescribe me medication, the specifics of which I can't recall at the moment. Despite taking these tablets for several months, I didn’t notice any improvement. I also had low vitamin D levels since my low energy kept me from going outside much. I didn’t consistently take the supplements, but I doubt they would have made a notable difference anyway. My mental health might play a part, as I’ve dealt with anxiety and mood swings for a long time. I took an evaluation in a health app that suggested I might have depression and although I got a better score when I retook it this year, it still indicates I could be struggling. My brother suspects I may be neurodivergent, possibly indicating OCD or autism. I’ve seen various counselors, which has been helpful, but my energy levels remain a concern, leading me to suspect a potential medical issue. Recently, while walking through some hallways that felt somewhat cramped, I experienced dizziness, which was new for me. Additionally, my menstrual cycle was regular for over a year, but suddenly I had cycles that lasted 45 days and missed my period for three months, with only light spotting in between. I just got my period last week, and there’s no possibility I could be pregnant. I question whether these developments have any connection to my fatigue. I engage in occasional exercise and until recently, I attended dance classes twice a week, but took a six-month break due to burnout. My family often tells me that my fatigue ruins our trips because I'm unable or unwilling to participate fully, constantly expressing that I’m too tired or sleeping in past breakfast. I would appreciate any insights you might have regarding possible causes for my fatigue that I could discuss with my doctor. I recently had blood work done to check for ovarian cysts due to my missed periods, and I believe they’re testing for other things as well. If anyone has any ideas—whether it could be a rare condition or subtle signs of something more serious (as I tend to be a bit of a hypochondriac)—please share. This exhaustion and moodiness have persisted for years, but I tend to think my mood issues are separate, even though they may contribute. Thank you for taking the time to read my lengthy message; there's just a lot weighing on my mind. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!

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Answers (1)

Cony

4/23/2025, 2:10:49 PM

OpenHealth AI

It's understandable to feel overwhelmed by your persistent fatigue, especially given the impact it has on your daily life and activities. There could be various factors contributing to your feelings of exhaustion, including possible nutritional deficiencies, underlying health conditions, or mental health concerns. Here’s a structured approach to help you consider what might be affecting your energy levels and what steps to take next.

Key Points:

  1. Fatigue can arise from multiple causes: nutritional deficiencies, hormonal changes, and mental health challenges.
  2. Your described symptoms, including dizziness and menstrual irregularities, are significant and should be carefully tracked and discussed with your healthcare provider.
  3. Mental health influences your energy levels, and addressing it holistically with appropriate support is crucial.

Explanation:

  • Nutritional Factors: Although your iron levels are normal, other deficiencies, such as vitamin D, B12, or general nutrition from your ARFID condition, can affect energy levels. A well-rounded diet is essential for maintaining energy, and being mindful about nutrients is important, especially if your eating habits are limited.

  • Hormonal Impact: Your irregular menstrual cycle can potentially reflect hormonal imbalances, which might contribute to fatigue and mood changes. The missed periods and light spotting warrant investigation to rule out conditions like polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) or thyroid issues.

  • Mental Health Considerations: It’s great that you are seeking help for anxiety and mood disorders, as these can have a profound impact on physical well-being. Feeling “drained” can sometimes be linked to mood disorders like depression, which may be exacerbated if it often feels like a struggle to engage in activities.

  • Physical Activity's Role: The contrast in your energy levels between school and weekends may indicate that structure and social engagement positively impact your mood and energy.

Next Steps:

  1. Track Symptoms: Keep a journal for a few weeks that notes your energy levels, mood, menstrual cycle, and diet. Include details like hours of sleep, activity levels, and any medication you take. This can help identify patterns and specific triggers.

  2. Nutritional Assessment: Work with a healthcare provider or nutritionist to evaluate your diet more closely for any deficiencies. Discuss options for dietary improvements or potential vitamin supplements, including ensuring consistent vitamin D intake since it can significantly impact energy.

  3. Review Hormonal Health: Follow up on your blood work regarding your menstrual cycle. If necessary, consider scheduling a discussion with a gynecologist to explore your menstrual irregularities.

  4. Mental Health Support: Continue seeking counseling and discuss your fatigue openly with your counselor or therapist. They might have techniques to help manage your mental health that could indirectly improve your energy levels.

  5. Gentle Regular Exercise: Aim for short, manageable forms of exercise to help build stamina without overexerting yourself. Activities like stretching or light yoga could be beneficial.

Closing Support:

It's perfectly normal to feel anxious about your health, especially when fatigue affects your quality of life. The journey to understanding what's affecting your energy may take some time, but you're already on the right path by seeking information and support. Remember to be patient with yourself, and don’t hesitate to reach out to professionals who can provide guidance tailored to your specific needs.

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