OpenHealth Q&A

Get answered by medical professionals

Concerns Over Neurological Symptoms: Why Doesn’t My Doctor Act?

4/1/2025, 6:00:31 PMMale25-34

A 28-year-old male from the UK writes: For quite some time, I have been grappling with various neurological issues such as memory lapses, poor balance, confusion, and even hallucinations. Despite these troubling symptoms, my primary care physician appears to treat my concerns with indifference. I have consulted other medical professionals who quickly recognized the seriousness of my situation and attempted to order further testing. However, my memory difficulties often hinder my ability to follow through with these appointments. Therefore, I find it perplexing that the doctor to whom I've returned continues to dismiss my condition, especially since it's progressively deteriorating and has persisted for many years. Is it possible that he is simply adopting a wait-and-see approach? This prolonged inaction is concerning. To give some context, these symptoms originated in my childhood; they temporarily subsided but have resurfaced during particularly stressful periods, though they’ve since plateaued as I’ve matured. I frequently wake up unable to recall activities from the past few weeks, experience frequent falls—especially lately—and encounter an ‘Alice in Wonderland’ phenomenon in which objects appear distorted, either larger or smaller than they truly are, or fluctuating between sizes. Additionally, I experience episodes of what is known as ‘jamais vu,’ where everyday situations feel peculiarly unfamiliar, compounded by a general state of confusion and disorientation. I’m leaning towards seeking a second opinion from another physician. However, I’ve previously encountered a negative reaction from this doctor when I considered switching practitioners. This past experience has deterred me from visiting my GP altogether in recent years, as I know I would be relegated back under his care, and I want to avoid causing any offense once more. I find myself at a crossroads, uncertain about what steps to take next.

Memory IssuesTremorsNeurology

Answers (1)

Cony

4/1/2025, 6:00:52 PM

OpenHealth AI

It sounds like you are facing significant and distressing neurological symptoms, and I understand how frustrating it can be when you feel your concerns aren’t being addressed effectively. It’s clear that these issues have persisted for a long time and are impacting your quality of life. Seeking further clarification and steps forward is essential.

Explanation:

Your symptoms, including memory lapses, poor balance, confusion, and hallucinations, warrant serious attention. While some doctors might take a "wait-and-see" approach, it’s crucial that you feel your issues are being thoroughly evaluated. The fact that you have previously consulted with professionals who recognized the seriousness of your symptoms suggests that your concerns are valid and deserve comprehensive investigation. Neurological symptoms can sometimes be complex, and having an accurate diagnosis is vital for effective treatment.

Next Steps:

  1. Document Your Symptoms: Start keeping a detailed symptom diary. Note the frequency, duration, and nature of your symptoms, including specific episodes of confusion, balance issues, or visual distortions. This can help you communicate better with any healthcare provider you see in the future.

  2. Consider Seeking a Second Opinion: Finding another healthcare provider who can take your concerns seriously is important. Look for a neurologist, as they specialize in conditions affecting the nervous system. You might want to research or ask for recommendations from trusted sources or patient forums.

  3. Prepare for Appointments: Before your next appointment, summarize your symptoms and your medical history succinctly. Bring your symptom diary to help illustrate your condition. This preparation can also assist you if memory issues arise during the appointment.

  4. Address the GP Relationship: If returning to your GP is necessary, consider discussing how you feel about his previous response. A direct, honest conversation might lead to a more constructive relationship, or at least allow you to express your needs more clearly.

  5. Activate Support Systems: If possible, involve a trusted friend or family member in your healthcare journey. They can help you remember important details during medical appointments and offer support in managing symptoms.

  6. Pursue Immediate Support: If symptoms worsen—such as experiencing frequent falls or severe confusion—consider seeking emergency care if necessary. Do not hesitate to seek immediate help if you feel your safety is compromised.

Taking proactive steps can help you feel more in control and ensure that your medical needs are addressed. Please know that you deserve thorough care, and it’s important to prioritize your health and well-being.

Related Questions

Persistent Itching and Burning Around Neck and Scalp - Should I Keep Using Cephalexin?

Greetings, I’m a 35-year-old female. I recently developed a rash that began on the back of my neck and subsequently spread to my ears. After consulting with my physician, I was prescribed ketoconazole shampoo to address a suspected fungal rash. Despite using it diligently for four days, the condition actually aggravated, affecting my ears, the back of my neck, and my scalp more significantly. Seeking further assistance, I visited an urgent care facility where the medical staff suggested that I might be experiencing bacterial folliculitis. As a result, they prescribed cephalexin, which I am to take at a dosage of 500mg three times daily for a week. I took my first dose yesterday, yet the intense itching and burning sensations persist without improvement. Is it advisable for me to continue the medication? How long does it typically take to see improvement? Is it common to experience these symptoms alongside bacterial folliculitis? I appreciate your time and any guidance you can provide on this matter!

DizzinessNumbnessNeurology
Male25-34
1 hour ago

Concerns About Hearing Loss After Extended Earphone Use

For the past two and a half years, I have primarily relied on in-ear earphones, with the right one typically experiencing less usage—mostly for short videos or brief instances. Recently, during a singing session, I noticed something unusual. I covered one ear to monitor my pitch, and I was surprised to find that my hearing felt unclear and somewhat muffled. This was an experience I hadn’t recognized before. After conducting a few tests by alternately covering each ear, I discovered that my left ear can hear clearly and accurately, while my right ear perceives sounds as muffled, as if there’s a barrier in front of the speaker. I’m seeking advice as a 17-year-old student from Pune, India, with financial constraints that prevent me from adding stress to my parents. I’m deeply concerned whether this issue could be permanent, and if there’s any possibility of recovery. Although I can still hear sounds from my right ear when they are very close, I am unsure of the next steps. I have made the decision to discontinue using earphones starting today, but I’m wondering what additional measures I should take. Would it be advisable to pursue an audiometry test or consult an audiologist for a professional evaluation?

MigraineNeurologyENT
Male25-34
2 hours ago

Dealing with Possible Epididymitis

A male, aged 40, standing at 5'9" and weighing 10.5 stone, presents a health concern. He has a history of smoking but refrains from alcohol consumption. For several years, I've grappled with a weakened bladder. However, over the last year or two, I've been experiencing intense discomfort in my right testicle. Initially, I thought I discerned a lump, prompting me to reach out to a physician. Unfortunately, the advice I received was limited; the doctor recommended an STI screening without conducting any examinations. I complied with the test, which returned negative results. Although the pain subsided briefly, it has now returned with greater intensity. I have undergone blood tests focusing on kidney, bladder, and prostate functions, all of which yielded normal results. Now, the medical team is leaning towards a diagnosis of epididymitis. The pain is excruciating and difficult to endure. I’ve scheduled an appointment for a prostate and testicular examination, which may lead to an ultrasound scan or possibly a urethral procedure to eliminate any serious underlying issues. The thought of the forthcoming examination fills me with anxiety, as I'm certain it will be painful. I'm curious if anyone has experienced epididymitis and what outcomes you faced, including any surgical interventions that may have been necessary.

HeadacheNeurologyNeurosurgery
Male25-34
2 hours ago

Concerns Regarding Neck Pain After Lifting Incident

I’m a 27-year-old man, standing at 174 cm and weighing 63 kg, residing in Australia. Earlier today, I attempted to lift a heavy case using only one hand. Unfortunately, I didn't realize it was unlatched, and when it opened unexpectedly, I felt significant stress in my lower neck and upper shoulder area. Approximately four hours later, I began to experience a pulsating discomfort on the left side of my neck, extending from beneath my ear down towards my collarbone. I have a medical background of neurological issues related to my vision, along with episodes of facial drooping that are currently under investigation. After the initial neck discomfort (which subsided quickly), I noticed a resurgence of blurriness in my vision. Could this incident have caused an injury to my neck that might be aggravating my neurological symptoms? Is there a chance that this situation could be a vascular emergency?

NumbnessNeurologyENT
Male25-34
3 hours ago

Mass in the Glottis

A 63-year-old male patient presents with a height of 165 cm and a weight of 66 kg, identified as Asian ethnicity. He has no history of smoking or alcohol consumption. His medical background includes asthma and angina, for which he is prescribed a Symbicort inhaler and Concor tablets. The patient’s main concern is related to a mass discovered during a gastroendoscopy conducted a year ago. Currently, he reports experiencing no pain, but has noticed mild hoarseness in his voice. What might this indicate?

NeurologyENT
Male25-34
7 hours ago