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Concerns After Anal Toy Use (18M)

3/20/2025, 12:10:22 AMMale25-34

Hello everyone, I’ll be brief: - I experienced some bleeding after I used a dildo too aggressively, which resulted in blood appearing in my stool. - After waiting for two days, I attempted to use the dildo again but still noticed blood in my stool that evening (Sunday). - I’ve chosen to hold off until next Sunday for another try, making it a complete week. As of today (Wednesday), I’ve spotted a small amount of light blood on some toilet paper, and my stools have been somewhat irregular this week. Should I be worried about this? Is waiting a week before trying again a reasonable approach?

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Cony

3/20/2025, 12:10:41 AM

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It sounds like you've experienced some concerning symptoms after using an anal toy, specifically bleeding, which can indicate injury or irritation. Here’s a breakdown of your situation and some actionable advice.

Main Points:

  1. Bleeding after anal toy use can be due to irritation or injury.
  2. Continuing to see blood in your stool and light spotting should be taken seriously.
  3. Waiting a week before trying again is a cautious approach, but monitoring your symptoms is crucial.

Explanation: Bleeding and changes in your stool can result from trauma to the anal or rectal area, often due to aggressive use of toys. Any blood in your stool or on toilet paper can indicate that there's some injury or irritation that needs to heal. The light spotting and irregular stools you've mentioned could be related to this.

Next Steps:

  1. Observe Symptoms:

    • Monitor for any increase in bleeding, pain, or changes in bowel habits. If bleeding worsens or if you experience significant pain, consider adjusting your timeframe for seeking help.
  2. Avoid Irritation:

    • Refrain from using any anal toys until you are completely symptom-free. This may require more than a week, depending on how your symptoms progress.
  3. Gentle Care:

    • Use a sitz bath (sitting in warm water) to soothe the area. This can help with any irritation and support healing.
  4. Dietary Adjustments:

    • Ensure your diet is high in fiber and drink plenty of water to keep stools soft and prevent straining during bowel movements.
  5. Keep Notes:

    • Keep track of any bleeding, changes in stool consistency, and any discomfort. This can be helpful if you choose to consult a healthcare professional in the future.

If symptoms persist, recur, or worsen, it's important to seek medical advice. Always prioritize your health and well-being. Take care, and let me know if you need further guidance.

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