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12-Year-Old Daughter Struggling with Severe Constipation During Vacation

3/19/2025, 10:30:22 PMMale25-34

I would be grateful for any guidance or suggestions. We’ve been on our holiday for four days, and my daughter hasn’t been able to use the restroom at all. Normally, she has bowel movements twice daily when we’re at home. Since yesterday, she has been expressing discomfort, experiencing bloating and abdominal pain. She’s made efforts to use the toilet at her usual times and feels the urge to go, yet despite pushing, nothing seems to happen. I don’t believe this is related to the food since everyone else in the family, including her sisters aged 15 and 7, who are consuming nearly identical meals, are having normal bowel movements. Our daughter has always had a hearty appetite and typically enjoys regularity in her bathroom habits; she has generally been in good health without any allergies or prior gastrointestinal issues. What might be causing this problem? We’re under the impression that she will eventually have to go if she keeps eating, but we are unsure how to proceed right now. I understand that occasional constipation can occur during travel, but it’s been quite a while since she has gone. If this persists, would a trip to the hospital be necessary? Should we consider administering a laxative? I appreciate your help in advance.

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Cony

3/19/2025, 10:30:40 PM

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It's understandable to be concerned when your daughter is experiencing severe constipation, especially when she's normally regular in her bowel movements. This situation can be uncomfortable for her, and it's important to address it appropriately.

Main Points:

  1. Possible Causes: Constipation during travel is common and can be caused by several factors, including dietary changes, reduced physical activity, changes in routine, and dehydration.
  2. Immediate Steps: You can take some practical steps to help alleviate her discomfort and encourage bowel movements.

Explanation:

Even though your daughter eats similar foods to the rest of the family, traveling can change several aspects of digestion. She may be less active or dehydrated, both of which can contribute to constipation. It’s good that she feels the urge to go, but if she experiences discomfort, bloating, or abdominal pain, we should look for ways to help her relieve that.

Next Steps:

  1. Hydration: Ensure your daughter is drinking plenty of water. Proper hydration is essential for healthy bowel function and can help soften stools.
  2. Dietary Fiber: Encourage her to eat fruits (like apples, pears, or berries), vegetables (like carrots or salad), and whole grains. If fruits are available, they can be especially helpful due to their natural sugars and fiber.
  3. Encourage Movement: If possible, encourage her to engage in light physical activities, such as walking, which can promote gastrointestinal motility.
  4. Warm Baths: A warm bath can help relax her abdominal muscles and may provide some comfort.
  5. Potty Routine: Help her find time to try using the restroom without rushing, perhaps after meals when the urge is more likely to be strong.
  6. Use of Laxatives: Over-the-counter laxatives can be considered for short-term relief but should be used cautiously, especially in children. If this situation persists for more than a couple of days without improvement, it may be wise to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice on this.

When to Seek Further Help:

If her symptoms worsen or she experiences severe pain, vomiting, or develops a fever, it would be important to seek medical attention.

Keep an eye on her symptoms over the next day or two, and follow these steps to help her feel more comfortable. Let me know if you need further guidance!

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